We all know that going back home isn’t an option. But a girl can dream.
Last week, as the plane approached Greenville-Spartanburg (South Carolina) International Airport, the sight of red clay gave me a twinge. Home beckoned like a taunt. “Come back… Oh yeah. I forgot… You can’t.”
In my defense, I’m not trying to go back. I’m here to live in more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 31, 2015
Remember (if you’re approximately my age) how we used to cross our hearts and “hope to die”? We’d earnestly pledge ourselves to some action or affection, pantomiming the heart crossing as if we (in my case, good Southern Baptist girls) were genuflecting.
Today, kids pinky swear. To me, pinky swearing doesn’t carry the same weight as our covenants made on the more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 23, 2015
How do the stories you tell affect your loved ones’ image of you?
Through your stories, you’re providing context that your loved ones will use to understand you better. In essence, you’re projecting an image. For instance, when you share multiple memories about raising your children, your loved ones will come to think of you, and understand you better, as a more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 17, 2015
One of the most rewarding parts of sharing your memories and stories is those moments when the big picture comes alive. When you see in someone’s reaction that you connected. Writing with your heart on your sleeve increases the likelihood of that happening.
The memory collector has a different role than the average narrator. You’re part of the story. You add more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 12, 2015
If a well-respected genealogical website said you should read this blog (and 13 others), would you follow instructions? I hope so, since that’s what Crestleaf’s blog is saying.
In my new favorite post, Crestleaf lists 14 Blogs You Might Not Be Reading but You Should! Of course, it should be pointed out, that when it comes to Crestleaf, I’ve been preaching more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 6, 2015
There’s sharing and then there is sharing. One of the more difficult decisions memory collectors and memoirists make is how public we want to make our stories.
Making your stories public can be difficult. Sharing everything is akin to living life out on a public stage and can make sharing your imperfections hard. I remember watching The Jetson’s as a child more…
Share this articlePosted on March, 3, 2015
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