Jul 082013

What lessons have you learned Just as we are keepers of memories, we are keepers of lessons learned. The kindly thing to do with the wisdom we’ve gained is to share it with those we love and generations to come.

That’s not to say that others can simply read about our experiences and avoid their own lessons. But we do learn from one another’s stories, especially stories that are very similar to our own. As you write about the times that you were “schooled,” your loved ones will be able to relate to you, whether they are relating to you because they recognize part of their own lives in your memories or because they are learning something new about you.

TeHard lessons learned chniques for writing about light-hearted lessons learned

Writing about lessons learned will often give your loved ones more than insight into how you became the person you are. It might just give them a good laugh. It can even be entertaining to frame everyday bloopers from a lesson learned perspective.

Lesson learned reports

If you come from the business world, you might be familiar with a “Lesson Learned Report.” These reports tend to start with “lessons” gleaned to simple operationally defined problems, concluding with advantages of the lesson learned or outcomes that will be avoided.

If you’re familiar with this format and like it, you can definitely adapt it for your Treasure Chest. A touch of irony or sarcasm can prevent your writing from sounding dry. “Keep small children in your sight at all times, even when you’re cleaning up messes they’ve made. Children placed in one room while their baby sitter cleans up a mess in another room have often been found to engage in further undesirable behavior, such as stripping naked, covering themselves with stickers and downing an entire bottle of Hershey’s chocolate syrup. Such escalations of naughtiness can cause an exponential increase of messes, such as the puking of said syrup and the stickers stopping up the bathtub drain.” (See similar technique in “Scientific Method to his Madness?“)

Lessons learned save laugh for lastLeave the laugh for last

If you’d like to present your lesson learned in a comedic light, it’s good to leave a surprise for the reader at the end. Tell of the day the kids made a huge mess and you cleaned up only to find that meanwhile your little one was covering himself with stickers and making himself a chocolate milkshake without the milk, ice-cream or shake. (Example: “Romantic Doggie Bag“)

Let your readers fill in the details

Sometimes very succinct summaries of comedic lessons learned can also work very well, such as  “John quickly learned that mom freaks out when he uses the square stickers with the US flag on them to decorate his bicycle.” Your readers won’t need all the facts to get the humor of “The silver lining of accidentally leaving your sun-roof partially open is that the cup-holders function nicely as rain-gauges. (You can even make a list of these to include in your holiday letter)

Serious Life Lessons

If the lesson you learned is not at all funny or you’d prefer to present it in a more serious light, simply write from the heart. Share what you’ve learned and why it matters. Your loved ones will appreciate your openness and honesty. (Example: Rachel Thompson’s Letter to My 20-Year-Old Self”)

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  4 Responses to “4 Ways to Write about Lessons Learned”

  1. Your posts are giving me so many really good ideas for preserving memories!! Thank you so much for sharing with us – it certainly inspires me to do the writing I really want to do!

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  3. I enjoyed this post thank you Laura, informative and interesting. Initially I couldn’t leave a comment but now it seems I can. Have subscribed to your blog and am following you on twitter.

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